I ordered this paddle I've named "The Motivator" to get Hubby over the word "punishment" and instead think of spanking me as motivation. He seemed to be on board with that. I was looking forward to testing it out for our anniversary on Friday. I didn't plan on what happened instead.
A few days ago, Hubby asked me to make sure we had an idea for meals so he wasn't expected to come up with something at the last minute, especially since we are trying to stick to a particular diet. I agreed and said I would. My little girl has been sick with some nasty virus and has been home from school. I know it's not an excuse. I've been trying to get work done. Also not an excuse. And I've been really tired. I know...I know...not an excuse either.
So today when I texted I was hungry at lunchtime and Hubby texted he was too, I knew the jig was up.
Me: What do you want to do for lunch?So, tonight with be my first
Hubby: Not sure...What are some options?
Hubby: What's wrong?
Me: I'm doing that thing you told me not to. Not planning. Not having an answer to what's to eat. Answering I don't know. Not caring.
Hubby: Oh... That think :)
Me: Yeah. Good thing the motivator isn't hear yet or I'd be having a date with it tonight.
Me (later): Looks like the motivator will be here today after all. Bummer...
Me (even later - from home: The Motivator is here and it doesn't fit in the the shoe box.
Hubby: Nice!!! I'll be easy with it...At first... ;)