I ordered this paddle I've named "The Motivator" to get Hubby over the word "punishment" and instead think of spanking me as motivation. He seemed to be on board with that. I was looking forward to testing it out for our anniversary on Friday. I didn't plan on what happened instead.
A few days ago, Hubby asked me to make sure we had an idea for meals so he wasn't expected to come up with something at the last minute, especially since we are trying to stick to a particular diet. I agreed and said I would. My little girl has been sick with some nasty virus and has been home from school. I know it's not an excuse. I've been trying to get work done. Also not an excuse. And I've been really tired. I know...I know...not an excuse either.
So today when I texted I was hungry at lunchtime and Hubby texted he was too, I knew the jig was up.
Me: What do you want to do for lunch?So, tonight with be my first
Hubby: Not sure...What are some options?
Me: Crap
Hubby: What's wrong?
Me: I'm doing that thing you told me not to. Not planning. Not having an answer to what's to eat. Answering I don't know. Not caring.
Hubby: Oh... That think :)
Me: Yeah. Good thing the motivator isn't hear yet or I'd be having a date with it tonight.
Hubby: Lol!!!
Me (later): Looks like the motivator will be here today after all. Bummer...
Hubby: :)
Me (even later - from home: The Motivator is here and it doesn't fit in the the shoe box.
Hubby: Nice!!! I'll be easy with it...At first... ;)
You should be careful what you wish for..sometimes you get it in spades! Good luck, lilmisses, sounds like your hubby may very well be all in! :)
ReplyDeleteThis is what I wanted. Now it's time to pay up. I'll let you know how it went. Right now I'm all nerves and he's just smiling away. But he seems to have an inner determination I can't quite put a finger on. For now I'm just trying to get dinner eaten and kids in bed.
DeleteYikes! I agree with Cowgirl - be careful indeed. Good luck, sweetie and I hope everything is great. :)
ReplyDeleteThanks Lillie. I'm a bit nervous. As well I should be I suppose. I brought it on myself in more ways than one. This is what I asked for...
DeleteGood luck. I hope it is all you want it to be.....and not too much more!! =>
DeleteThanks! I'll post the story of last night later today. I am not allowed to blog this morning. Too much to do!
DeleteGood luck. The waiting is a killer.
ReplyDeleteYes it is! Or was anyway...
DeleteUh oh...hope he was gentle.
ReplyDeleteGentle? In a manner of speaking. More later.
DeleteOh boy...hope it went ok!
ReplyDeleteWaiting is always the worst part....let us know....wondering what this motivator looks like. On a side note I've used the same words before it does seem to make a difference in the way its presented. :)
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