Hubby and I were IMing today and I highlighted the part that intrigued me:
Hubby: what up
me: My next appt with dr.
v is the 28th
I haven't lost
anything
I need you to help
motivate me
I can't do it on my
own
Hubby: yes, I can do
that... :)
have you been taking
the meds he prescribed?
me: yes
mostly
Hubby: cool
?
me: I missed a week
Hubby: k
me: but then I got
back on it
Hubby: no worries...
:)
lets do this thing
me: I just haven't
been eating what I should
And I know it's my fault
I have lots of guilt
Hubby: roger...
here is what I want
you to do. reschedule the appt for next month before 20th
me: ok
Hubby: tonight, you
and I will write out some "rules" for us to follow...and me to
enforce
me: ok
Hubby: tomorrow, you will
go to the grocery store and stock up on the first things we'll need (2-3 days
of stuff) and we'll kick this thing :)
me: alright
Hubby: i love u
so much
me: i love
you too
thank you
I plan on bringing home wine for us to share during our talk. I should know better than to get my hopes up about Dd. I doubt that's what he means by "enforce". I just can't help myself. I've got all these thoughts swimming in my head and I just know I'm setting myself up for disappointment. But a girl can hope, right?
Stay cool lilmiss! He's practicing the art of leading and that is a really wonderful thing. Gosh, I know how tempting it would be to set yourself up for what you think he might be pondering. I'm not too sure how to explain it, but this thing he's doing now is so good for both of you and if you can hold yourself back to allow him to lead his way, you become a better follower and you build up his confidence. It's all good!
ReplyDeleteI wish I would've read this before we had our talk. But you are right...
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