Tuesday, October 9, 2012

Discount Spanking

I have always gotten off easy. Until now, all my spankings have been for the purposes of erotica/stress relief. We had a couple of trial "reminder" spankings that consisted of 3-4 swats each side and it was painful, but that's been it. It was then decided that this whole thing was a bit confusing. Both of us needed more definition regarding rules and guidelines. I outlined what I thought followed the general principles of ttwd (emphasis on "we"). It's more of a list of categories. I'm not posting it here, but you can leave your email in a comment or email me and I will send you what I wrote out.  Hubby was pretty happy with it and we agreed that it will work for us.

I had broken major rule on Friday. I lied about something. I'm not sure why I did it, but this has become a disturbing trend for me. Hubby found out about the lie yesterday. Nothing was said until I sent him the new rule setup and explained to him that I knew I had broken a big rule, so I suggested that if he wanted to, he could take care of the infraction later. But there was a problem. I had received some news about my brother that set me off in a panic. I ended up at my therapist's for an emergency session. Some things I can deal with. This was bad enough that it wrecked my world. Let's just say he's gonna need a really good lawyer.

Hubby didn't worry about taking care of the infraction, even though I offered myself. He said that he just wanted to hold me. Seriously I can hear y'all "Awwww!"-ing from here. Lol.

One of my rules is that I am to be ready to leave the house by 8 am. Whether we are meeting to work out together or I just have to go to work, I am to be wherever I'm supposed to be at a decent time. On days we don't work out, I have to be to work by 8:30.

This morning I didn't even get into the shower until 8. He came in and warned me that I was already getting spanked, how much was dependent on how late I was to work. Well, I was 5 minutes late. Add to that the infraction from Friday, and I was in deep doodoo.

But since this was my first technical punishment spanking corrective action, I was given a discounted spanking, as he called it. I would receive 60% off the morning lateness, but add in 20% for the extra 5 minutes I was late. Then I got 80% off the big infraction. In total, that's 5 swats each side. That 67% off the original total. Am I lucky or what?!?!

He knows he was easy on me. He said not to expect discounts every spanking. I think because this was the first official corrective action, he was reluctant. He doesn't want to punish me. He doesn't like doing it. But from what I've heard, it won't be long before he is punishing with gusto. I have read it several places that once he sees what it does for me, for us, and for our family, that he will be less reserved.

Is this your experience?

24 comments:

  1. Wow LM,
    The math had me all confused - I couldn't tell if it was good news or not. :D
    I am a gigantic tight wad, as my family and friends will all attest, and I was intrigued when I read the word "discount".
    I have to tell you, I am delighted with the idea of a "sale". Like Tuesdays could be 40% off original punishment cost - cheat on your diet and receive a mild lecture and a pink coloured bottom.....rather than a scathing dressing down and a red posterior.
    and btw
    Watch out! I can tell from your descriptions, he is quickly catching on to the benefits of this new life, and he will be flexing his HoH muscle. That might not be the best news for your bum.
    Hugs and love
    Ian asks, are you still staying away from coffee? (and he winks, I think at you) :)

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    1. I know...It is confusing. I was supposed to get 10 for the lie and 5 for the lateness. He gave me 2 for the lie and 2 for the lateness plus 1 for the extra lateness. So I ended up with 5 instead of 15. Well, I guess it should've been 16 technically.
      Let Ian know that I am staying away from caffeine. I haven't had any since Hubby's been back, not even tea. I have had decaf coffee and that's okay. :)

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  2. Sheesh! Math has always been my worst subject. Barney loves it. I hope he doesn't ever adapt this line of thinking, and then gets me to figure out the problem! I always invert my numbers so I'd end up with 51 on a non-discount day!

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    1. Yeah. You may want to stay away from math. Wouldn't want you to hurt yourself. Lol!

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  3. Wow! That's a lot of math!! Congratulations...? Seems kinda weird to congratulate someone for getting a spanking, but I'm glad you guys are moving forward with Dd. :). I am waiting on Moose to make his move. :)

    Hope you have a terrific week!!

    Nikki

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    1. Hey Nikki! Yeah it's hard to get the not-predominantly-dominant man to go against everything he was taught. Hubby doesn't like it. But it will all start to make sense for him soon. And then I'd better watch out. I am sure Moose will catch on soon.

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  4. The math would make me crazy, lol. Daddy spanks, for correction or any other kind, the way I cook - until I'm done.

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    1. Sounds like you're what's for dinner!

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  5. I love discounts - you were lucky. Hope it keeps up

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    1. Heheheh... Discounts are a good thing!

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  6. Discount spankings? And I thought I'd heard just about everything LM! ;) I'm sorry your brother is in a bad place and it sent you into a spiral. Hopefully, your hubby can keep you in a safe place. If you earn any other spankings - here's hoping for more discounts!

    Blessings,
    Cat

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    1. Hiya Cat! Hubby is real good about keeping me safe. He's been amazing thought this whole thing.
      Somehow I think maybe the discounts will cease once he gets a hang of this HoH thing.

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  7. Wow, maths has never been my strong point, but it sounded like you got some pretty good discounts :)

    I like the idea of discounted spankings, as long as he doesn't make me do the maths!

    Here's to many more discounts Lol - Although, it does sound like he's beginning to flex his HoH muscles more so future discounts may not be as good!

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    1. Yep...He's starting to flex them alright! By Christmas I am sure I will be hoping for discounts in my stocking.

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  8. He's a creative guy, that's for sure! I have never received a mathematically calculated discount spanking.

    Be good. :)

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    1. Lol. I did the math. He just gave the discounts. I think if he would've done the math it would've turned out differently. Even he looked shocked when I showed him the math.

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  9. Well, I'm confused, lol! Math isn't my thing anyway! Blue still doesn't like to do the punishment spankings, but he absolutely will when he has to. I think I'm glad he doesn't enjoy them either. Sorry about your brother. Hope everything works out okay. (((Hugs)))

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    1. Hi CG! (((hugs)))
      Hubby will figure out this thing and I will be in big trouble then.
      Not sure what's going to happen with my brother. We will see...

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  10. Well I can tell you from my point of view and my feelings, and needs, that I hate it when DH doesn't follow up. I haven't broken a rule on purpose, but I have thought about it so many times, just to see if he would actually follow through and spank me till he thinks I have had enough.

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    1. I have pretty strong feelings about it too. But he's just starting and we have to see what he decides to do. It's not up to me...

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  11. Too much math is what I say!

    Btw, your name suggestion for a Kat character, a naighbor named Abby, will show up in the Spank or Treat Halloween story. It took a while, but I worked it in. ;)

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  12. I am happy you received the discount! Sometimes it is easier to work your way into punishment.
    I also hope all turns out okay for your brother!

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  13. I would rather get a spanking than if I had to do math equations. I didn't mind most math, but the ones that said anything about a plane, train, or car leaving... those I hated. My mind would immediately say "blah, blah, blah. No for real... my husband does not like to give me punishment spankings, however he is enjoying spanking me for fun, now that he found out my secret. I really had to encourage my husband (of course when I wasn't in trouble). I even purchased a ebook from www.VariantBooks.com. It was called "How to Give a Spanking". It was recommended by one of the blogs I read, but I can't remember now, by which one. I read it first, and made a few notes in the margins, then I gave it to him to read. Along with it, I purchased "How to Get the Spanking You Want". Both books are long. I printed them, because I didn't want to read all that on the computer, and I know he wouldn't have. He only gets on the computer to play solitare every now and then. I told him that the spankings that I was getting, would not cause me to change my behavior. They actually made me look forward to the next one. We came up with a safe word. He felt safer, and he has finally gotten to the point, where I do not enjoy a discipline spanking, and it does make me want to avoid another. My husband still does not enjoy giving that type, but he knows it's what I need. Sooo that's my long answer to your short question. I'm so sorry about your brother. I just recently found out that my nephew is doing some drugs, and it could land him in jail. It hurts my heart. I will pray that your brother's eyes are opened and he will see a need for change. God Bless You and All You Love, Belle L.

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