tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post7075293432085247722..comments2023-06-17T09:19:41.780-04:00Comments on Lil Misses Unfolds: TransParentlilmisseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comBlogger16125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-24332161091518025052013-04-02T16:50:10.780-04:002013-04-02T16:50:10.780-04:00Willie, I'm inviting you over next time we hav...Willie, I'm inviting you over next time we have to spend time with her. You can tell her where to stick it! Lol!!<br />(((hugs)))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-19167336579988598132013-04-02T16:49:00.957-04:002013-04-02T16:49:00.957-04:00Hiya Lillie. (((((((hugs))))))
We talked about it ...Hiya Lillie. (((((((hugs))))))<br />We talked about it at great length and decided that we will no longer share information with his family. If they ask, we just tell them that things are going well and everyone is happy. That's all they need to know...lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-51504346574265476002013-04-02T16:47:28.508-04:002013-04-02T16:47:28.508-04:00You would think they would behave, wouldn't yo...You would think they would behave, wouldn't you? No such luck. That's okay. They give us the example of what not to do. ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-91515464614787530762013-04-02T16:46:45.940-04:002013-04-02T16:46:45.940-04:00And everybody is happy for sure! Thanks so much. (...And everybody is happy for sure! Thanks so much. ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-69379903624669212472013-04-02T16:46:20.174-04:002013-04-02T16:46:20.174-04:00The "source" has money and therefore thi...The "source" has money and therefore thinks she can dictate what others do. But that's all she has is money. She doesn't have friends. Her family can barely stand her. There is no love in her life. But the whole family is money driven. I came from poverty. I'm doing quite well by my standards! ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-25901525414550602342013-04-02T16:44:30.083-04:002013-04-02T16:44:30.083-04:00Thankfully Hubby is loving me no matter what. Also...Thankfully Hubby is loving me no matter what. Also grateful the kids have no idea what's going on. ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-91550478971168609532013-04-02T16:38:24.987-04:002013-04-02T16:38:24.987-04:00Hi Emi!
It's a bummer to have family like tha...Hi Emi! <br />It's a bummer to have family like that. All we can do is make sure we don't follow in their footsteps. Seeing the therapist was helpful, but she's also a big meanie. She wants me to set boundaries and not prepare snarky comebacks for when they upset me next time. Ugh... Why's she gotta make me grow up??<br />((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-61213873428975039132013-04-02T16:35:48.269-04:002013-04-02T16:35:48.269-04:00Thank you. We are doing what makes us happy. GMIL ...Thank you. We are doing what makes us happy. GMIL can go stick it! ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-2418939165205956182013-04-02T11:53:15.346-04:002013-04-02T11:53:15.346-04:00You know most times you start out behind the 8 bal...You know most times you start out behind the 8 ball as the daughter in law to begin with. It is not right, and for the most part *I* never experienced it, but I saw it in my own family.<br /><br />Also not right that your husband should have to defend his wife to his family. Sigh, such a difficult position to be in, although in theory it shouldn't be. It should be cut and dry. Choosing the right side, not just the wife side. Easier said than done.<br /><br />Positives. He acknowledged. Hopefully next time he'll be more aware. Susie is right you are teaching your kids differently also a positive.<br /><br />If it is possible this next time Granny opens her cake hole remember<br /><br />**Some people need to open their small minds instead of their big mouths**<br /><br />( sorry I'm a little feisty as of late )<br /><br />love williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-61055351442170521862013-04-02T11:30:50.654-04:002013-04-02T11:30:50.654-04:00What a horrible way to live your life, I feel very...What a horrible way to live your life, I feel very sad for the GMIL. You know what they say,sweetie - you can choose your friends, family you don't get any options. Living your life happily is the only thing you can do....<br />Glad you and hubby connect well over it though :)<br />hugs<br />lillieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-80866356608329801842013-04-02T06:37:23.492-04:002013-04-02T06:37:23.492-04:00Bah...sorry you dealt with this on Easter Sunday w...Bah...sorry you dealt with this on Easter Sunday with what sounds like a group of people who by character and belief should be behaving very differently!<br /><br />At the end of the day all we can do is change things in our own generation, in our own families. You are teaching your children differently and they will be your legacy. Susiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00511114118020790717noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-88692745261652032252013-04-02T06:16:51.105-04:002013-04-02T06:16:51.105-04:00I'm sorry you have to put up with this sort of...I'm sorry you have to put up with this sort of attitude and that you are both hurt by it. Family can be so difficult. At the end of the day what matters is that you and your hubby love each other and are happy and that your children are happy.<br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-60788407274833465422013-04-01T15:12:10.183-04:002013-04-01T15:12:10.183-04:00I'm sorry you had such a rough day. Family in...I'm sorry you had such a rough day. Family interactions are sticky at best, especially with people like that. As long as your hubby loves you the rest will be okay. I'm sorry you are both hurt by this. Just remember to consider the source.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01585822635428776570noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-39756339279418592013-04-01T13:03:45.055-04:002013-04-01T13:03:45.055-04:00Ugh, I'm so sorry. I have a mil just like you...Ugh, I'm so sorry. I have a mil just like your gmil. Luckily, we live very very far away. My poor sil who lives across the street has nearly had her marriage end over it. The best thing you can do is love yourself in those moments, since you're not getting it from anyone else. HUGS!!!!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04842027321593278610noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-46718572302765727942013-04-01T12:34:21.368-04:002013-04-01T12:34:21.368-04:00Hang in there.. I have a monster of an in law fami...Hang in there.. I have a monster of an in law family and it's so very hurtful at times.<br />My Hubby know it and after all these years, sees them for how they really are. He feels bad about how they treat me and my one daughter (yet they show favoritism to another...).<br /><br />It's horrible having to be on the defense all the time and stressful!<br /><br />Hope you get some good time in with the therapist! Letting things go whether on paper, blog or by mouth is a great relief!<br /><br />-Emi<br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-4888975144019209502013-04-01T12:24:16.588-04:002013-04-01T12:24:16.588-04:00If you and your ever loving husband, enjoy what yo...If you and your ever loving husband, enjoy what you do in life. Do it to your hearts content. I'm with you 100% percent.sixofthebestnoreply@blogger.com