tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post5368938661872033486..comments2023-06-17T09:19:41.780-04:00Comments on Lil Misses Unfolds: Someone Else's Kids + Downloadlilmisseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comBlogger19125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-56636719112179386072013-05-02T00:56:29.747-04:002013-05-02T00:56:29.747-04:00Experiences like this are so tough and so exhausti...Experiences like this are so tough and so exhausting - but all worth it when we can see the value of changing something that needs to be changed. So glad it's over, so glad no one was hurt, so glad that the other driver was gracious & that the cop was nice, and so glad that your husband loves you enough to help you deal with your feelings of guilt. I think you were blessed that day, and I hope that your tomorrows are all the sweeter for what you went through. Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-64142225955453310812013-05-01T15:11:25.465-04:002013-05-01T15:11:25.465-04:00Thanks Katie. I'm glad I got spanked for it to...Thanks Katie. I'm glad I got spanked for it too. It was by no means fun, but he had my full attention. And you are right. I may as well have been driving drunk. I've caught myself weaving before and thinking that I need to focus on driving. But I kept doing it anyway. From now on, I will not be another hazard on the road. <br />(((hugs)))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-22529908145408255472013-05-01T14:38:57.213-04:002013-05-01T14:38:57.213-04:00Hi LM, :)
I'm sorry that you got your spankin...Hi LM, :)<br /><br />I'm sorry that you got your spanking, but glad that you got your spanking! So many many people mess with their phones while they are driving, and the end result can be so awful! These people might as well be driving drunk because that is how they often appear to be driving when they are texting, etc.<br /><br />We tell our kids to leave their phones down when they are driving, and we also tell them not to mess with the radio while they are driving. Anything that takes their eyes off the road... Unfortunately, even if they do all the right stuff, there are plenty of people out there who are still doing the wrong stuff, and I hope that none of us meet up with one of them in a bad way!<br /><br />Good for you for making changes LM! :) I really like your lock screen! :) It's a great idea! I am glad that you were not hurt in your accident! hugs and love,<br /><br /><3 Katie<br /><br /> Katiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09502903951761571578noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-29493948224160188422013-05-01T08:45:41.486-04:002013-05-01T08:45:41.486-04:00Thank you Jane. I wish I would've heeded other...Thank you Jane. I wish I would've heeded others' words when they kept saying to not drive distracted. Instead I thought to myself, this doesn't apply to me because I'm a really good driver and I've only ever been in one accident and it wasn't my fault, it was a hit & run. The reality is that it could and eventually will happen to you if you decide not to listen to what others have learned. <br />I just hope my words are taken seriously by those who read them. It's so important to not drive distracted and I KNOW that now. <br />((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-18009822974314596962013-05-01T08:40:47.513-04:002013-05-01T08:40:47.513-04:00I think so too willie. I'm very blessed it was...I think so too willie. I'm very blessed it wasn't worse. The lady got out of her car and she was nothing but gracious. If I were her, I would've been irate. I think that made the whole thing harder because I had no one to blame except myself. <br />Hubby's words stung more than the paddle, that's for sure. And they are still with me now. The paddle just helped drive it home. Ouch...<br />(((hugs)))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-48869246267739542832013-05-01T08:32:50.022-04:002013-05-01T08:32:50.022-04:00This post was very touching. I am glad that you ar...This post was very touching. I am glad that you are okay, the woman is okay, and no children were involved. ((hugs))Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-40006928090509375942013-05-01T08:27:05.890-04:002013-05-01T08:27:05.890-04:00Honestly Roz, I deserved more of a spanking than I...Honestly Roz, I deserved more of a spanking than I got. But he did it to help release the guilt and not as a punishment. It's much easier to take when you know you've earned it. He complemented me on getting better at holding still. Really it was because I was not going to fight it. I needed it and I knew it. I will not get spanked for it again because it will not happen again. Lesson learned!<br />(((hugs)))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-2103565571254151272013-05-01T08:23:04.062-04:002013-05-01T08:23:04.062-04:00Hanging my head in shame. This is a horrible thing...Hanging my head in shame. This is a horrible thing I do and cannot imagine what would happen if he found out. It's an addiction, I admit it. And every stop light is one of the few times uninterrupted for 30 seconds. I'm much better with my kids in the car. But gosh, the thought of killing somebody else's kid. I couldn't go on. Your words have hit me in a way no other warning ever has. Because I'm the ultimate multitasker, those warnings were for everybody else. When I'm done with this appointment, I'm going to find a good spot for the phone and it will live there when I drive. Every single time. Never again will I pick it up on the road. ashebridgehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08573787332690062041noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-92012854369408890262013-05-01T08:12:39.068-04:002013-05-01T08:12:39.068-04:00I think that something is probably in the works fo...I think that something is probably in the works for all smart phones in the future. I know that Sprint has an app, for an added fee, that does keeps the driver from doing anything but call 911. It blocks all alerts for all apps so you wouldn't know if someone called or texted or anything else. It detects when the car is motion. I can see that becoming a standard feature in the future. http://www.sprint.com/landings/focusondriving/index.html ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-20035535350410484892013-05-01T07:23:39.310-04:002013-05-01T07:23:39.310-04:00Thanks LM, This post is a great reminder that ever...Thanks LM, This post is a great reminder that everyone should be looking at the road and not their phones. It is easy to be distracted by a text or call, everyone is curious to know what the other person wants. It's human nature.<br /><br />I glad that no one was hurt and that you have learned from this. Many people don't learn until it is too late.<br /><br />((Hugs))<br />JaneAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-49932817332871462312013-05-01T06:56:12.086-04:002013-05-01T06:56:12.086-04:00Well maybe it was 'Divine intervention'- a...Well maybe it was 'Divine intervention'- a small accident to make you see the errors of your ways.<br /><br />Happy to hear that your husband has the lecturing down pat. Anyone can wail away, but once the sting leaves the bum, what do you have to recall? The words are what is important here.<br /><br />love, williewilliehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01907855123777628267noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-42760819148624808332013-05-01T06:10:48.726-04:002013-05-01T06:10:48.726-04:00Hey LM, I am so sorry to hear about the accident a...Hey LM, I am so sorry to hear about the accident and am so relieved that everyone was OK and nobody was hurt.<br /><br />Thank you for posting this, it is such a good message and the cell wallpaper is a great idea! We often don't think about the risk we are taking, and that the risk is not only to us, but to others as well. <br /><br />Good on you for telling your husband about your guilt and for accepting the spanking. It can't have been easy to do.<br /><br />((Hugs))<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-28432623346209037722013-04-30T23:48:26.886-04:002013-04-30T23:48:26.886-04:00LM, I am so guilty of this. I never text (because ...LM, I am so guilty of this. I never text (because I can't see it with my sunglasses on) but I do make calls and receive them. I really have considered looking for an app that will send a message that I am driving to anyone that calls and text me when I activate it in the car. If there isn't one already someone needs to create one. (the only # you can call while driving would be 911.) <br /><br />I'm so glad you are okay. ;)<br />BetsyBetsyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16797556126429403439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-16614436786392913312013-04-30T23:46:10.200-04:002013-04-30T23:46:10.200-04:00I have to drive that same route almost every day t...I have to drive that same route almost every day this week. I know I'm gonna cringe every time I cross those tracks. <br />Hubby wasn't going to spank but he saw that I needed it. Boy did I cry a lot! By the end I was in hysterics. He is a natural with the lecturing now, like he's been doing it his whole life. And his words can cut deep. He of course is never mean. He speaks truth to me and I listen. And he's so right. The changes he's making are amazing. He's turning out to be quite the HoH! Of course, there is still the matter of him taking on his role fully and me getting a spanking I didn't ask for and then there's no going back. <br />I think I will try to stay out of trouble! (((hugs)))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-37126792967202786712013-04-30T23:36:35.651-04:002013-04-30T23:36:35.651-04:00Thanks Blue. ((hugs))Thanks Blue. ((hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-8751927101784515182013-04-30T23:35:58.713-04:002013-04-30T23:35:58.713-04:00Know what the difference between knowledge and wis...Know what the difference between knowledge and wisdom is? Knowledge is learning from your own mistakes. Wisdom is learning from someone else's. <br />((Hugs))lilmisseshttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-72708877093635025412013-04-30T23:22:33.693-04:002013-04-30T23:22:33.693-04:00OMG! LM! I am so happy you are okay! And no one ...OMG! LM! I am so happy you are okay! And no one was hurt! I am kinda glad your man spanked, I mean, if you are like me - it will make you think really seriously at the next railroad crossing. That sounds means - sorry, but it is really dangerous to take chances driving.<br />I do it sometimes, and always know it is a bad move, but get lucky. One of these times, something terrible could happen.<br />The good thing is - nothing bad happened and you know how much your hubby loves and cherishes you.<br />hugs and love <br />lillieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-28580677424630556842013-04-30T23:03:11.770-04:002013-04-30T23:03:11.770-04:00((((Hugs))))((((Hugs))))Blue Birdhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06173540938552974351noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-66994752840533515432013-04-30T23:01:03.705-04:002013-04-30T23:01:03.705-04:00Oh shoot...you've succeeded in making me feel ...Oh shoot...you've succeeded in making me feel guilty about my phone in the car habits... Ok, I will have a designated place where the phone must stay too. Thanks for opening my eyes to a real danger.Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/04842027321593278610noreply@blogger.com