tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post5021376455286204274..comments2023-06-17T09:19:41.780-04:00Comments on Lil Misses Unfolds: Love and Idiot Lightslilmisseshttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08437889372965529146noreply@blogger.comBlogger7125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-45681779837207905982013-03-24T12:54:33.974-04:002013-03-24T12:54:33.974-04:00I know, Junie :)
Some of the questions make assump...I know, Junie :)<br />Some of the questions make assumptions and I think it would be a better indicator without those. Very interesting though - how important physical touch is to some of us here....not that it means anything necessarily - just interesting. :DAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-89791492577575046622013-03-24T10:18:42.233-04:002013-03-24T10:18:42.233-04:00This really fascinates me... 'cause as long as...This really fascinates me... 'cause as long as I can remember it's been physical touch... but with my husband physical touch got a 1...and we have known this for awhile. I love touching him, but i hate BEING touched by him... weird...<br /><br />Your Scores<br />10Acts of Service<br />8Words of Affirmation<br />7Quality Time<br />4Receiving Gifts<br />1Physical TouchAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06196703996717084620noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-66559111024591931402013-03-23T19:29:03.723-04:002013-03-23T19:29:03.723-04:00Hi LM, great post, I will do the love language tes...Hi LM, great post, I will do the love language test, I didn't actually know about it so thank you. It is important to understand how your significant other feels loved. I think I would be physical touch and words of affirmation.<br /><br />I understand the need to purge the guilt. Sometimes it's not so easy to forgive ourselves, even if we have our husband's forgiveness. <br /><br />Hugs,<br />RozRozhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14326826956049047973noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-37422923032002414572013-03-22T20:43:04.412-04:002013-03-22T20:43:04.412-04:00lillie-belle, mine was:
11 - Physical Touch
8 - Qu...lillie-belle, mine was:<br />11 - Physical Touch<br />8 - Quality Time<br />6 - Words of Affirmation<br />5 - Acts of Service <br />0 - Receiving Gifts<br /><br />This is the second time I did it, and the result was the same as about a year ago. I don't like the way some of the questions are phrased, mostly because it rather assumes that the guys don't do it, even though ours do! So I put it in the frame of: of these two things, which is most important to me, and which could I do without. <br /> Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-37715311382445273802013-03-22T18:45:09.149-04:002013-03-22T18:45:09.149-04:00Hi LM,
This was so interesting. I agree with June...Hi LM,<br />This was so interesting. I agree with June and Sara above, it isn't controlling to tell him respectfully how you feel. :) <br /><br />And I did my love language I am:<br />Physical Touch <br />Quality Time<br />Words of Affirmation<br />Acts of Service <br />Receiving Gifts<br /><br />It would be interesting to know how many TiH women have Physical Touch as their primary love language. Maybe when we screw up we need physical touch, even if it is spanking to make us feel redeemed and loved.<br /><br />hugs<br />lillie<br /><br />Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-79160615562425932252013-03-22T14:19:30.123-04:002013-03-22T14:19:30.123-04:00LM, send him this post, and then ask if the two of...LM, send him this post, and then ask if the two of you can talk about it. Explain why you expected you might have been paddled, felt that you deserved to be. Ask him about his thoughts and feelings. You can tell him your feelings without directing him on what to do, right? <br /><br />Sarafindingsarahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07352980311488921341noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7139653466148089653.post-42983174590636146992013-03-22T12:51:45.879-04:002013-03-22T12:51:45.879-04:00LOL, exactly what it looks like to you! And the ex...LOL, exactly what it looks like to you! And the exclamation point somehow adds to the humor of it :-P<br /><br />I'm like you, I need that purge. Once, Ward said that he understood and wasn't going to give a correction, but I said maybe I felt like I needed it. He was offended a bit at first I think, he said - is not my grace enough? And it was from him, but I had not given myself. <br /><br />He understands now that I do need that to assuage my own guilt and feel like we have a truly clean slate all the way around. <br /><br />(((hugs)))<br /><br />And if I haven't said it before - welcome back!Junehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03940211128244967387noreply@blogger.com